This Is Why Your Relationship Should Never Be Equal

“A great relationship is not 50/50, it is 100/100. When both people consistently give their all, neither will be left wanting. “

JamesMSama.com

Wait…what? Did you read that right? I thought I was the guy who was always supposed to be advocating for equality and fairness, particularly between genders and in relationships. Well, I still am, but the reality is that your relationship will never be truly equal. And on top of that – it shouldn’t be anyway.

How could I say such a thing? Because complete equality in a relationship is not the road to happiness, as some may think. We should all be equal in terms of rights and respect given to us, especially when part of a couple. We should all be treated fairly. But if we push the idea of a 50/50 relationship, we perpetuate a selfish mindset already rampant in our society.

Hear me out.

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If I do something for a significant other, I should be doing it because I want to. Because seeing her happy makes me happy…

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